The landlord for my storefront encroached upon my personal space and time every single day for a week. I finally had to send a gentle email requesting that he give me space. Perhaps I should have shelled out for the more expensive property on the other side of the park….
Middle-aged, longtime plumbers can be incredibly insulting and condescending when one is simply trying to obtain an estimate for the installation of a sink. My life experience forces me to wonder if being both African-American and female didn’t fuel his lack of manners and professionalism….
One hundred pounds worth of flooring is showing up at my house today for carting down the street to the store, and it’s a complete toss-up as to whether someone will be home when it arrives. Being forced to trek to some far out postal facility looking for the floor to my backroom two days before the health inspection is not my idea of a good time. I’m keeping my fingers crossed.
Meanwhile, on the kung fu front, my boss at the gym is on her way out the door to another job, and her boss doesn’t care enough about the kung fu program to properly promote the next session. The new flier is great. The problem is getting it out of the company computers and in view of the gym members! Call me crazy, but I’m fairly certain that’s the best way to attract students.
Last night, my son was intentionally mauled by a Siheng who outranks him for having the audacity to land a good punch in Sanshou class. Now, there’s a new measure of bad blood in the family relationship with the guan. I’m just glad I wasn’t upstairs to see the fight. My mother bear alter ego (or is that my primary ego?) might have turned it into an all-out brawl.
I have to admit I was happy to hear that Aaron recovered from the beating to ultimately win a fight that was only supposed to be a sparring match. That’s kind of how I felt going through my whole week of remodeling and regulatory madness. It must be a family trait.
Back in the blogosphere, if only for an hour or so! I haven’t had time to write or read (outside of work material) for a week, which has been disturbing. I thought about pouring out all that I can about the week’s adventures in store making, but my thoughts keep coming back to the warmth of my favorite day.
Sunday is great. It’s almost as busy as any other in the week; so its greatness doesn’t lie in being a day of rest. What makes Sunday so wonderful to me is that it’s the day I get to do everything I most enjoy.
I get up and indulge the journalist in me by watching the news talk shows. After twenty years of covering the federal government and the people in it, it’s a task as automatic as brushing my teeth. It’s also an unspoken job requirement (for just a little while longer), since I’m supposed to know what the big stories and sound bites of the day are. I watch while eating, stretching and warming up for the beginner kung fu class I teach at noon. Then, I’m off to my students.
I teach the kids for an hour, doing my best to keep a straight face when the front kick instruction suddenly turns into a conversation about peanut butter and birthday parties. Today was a particularly special day, as it was the last class of the session. I taught everyone the final moves of the white sash form, and my star students perfected what they already knew as I worked with the younger attention spans in the group. It’s been a long time since I’ve taught a set of students an entire form – and the only time I’ve done it alone! I look forward to awarding yellow sashes in a couple of weeks.
After my kids and their moms left me alone in the yoga room, I continued my Sunday ritual. I always spend a second hour in the gym trying to lower my stances, speed up my spins and quicken the pace of my performance of the White Eyebrow staff form. I use Sunday to practice the corrections Sifu gives me in Saturday class.
For several months now, the day’s routine has ended with me replenishing the carbs I burn off in training as I watch a baseball or football game. Then, I cook dinner for the family and work on recipes for the sweets shop. This Sunday, I ended the afternoon by meeting one of the better handymen I’ve ever known at the site of my future store and going over all I need to hire him to do to get it ready for a grand opening.
And so, the ritual has changed. Going forward, Sunday’s greatness will likely always include time at the store. Soon, that will be true of all days. How great is that?
Sunday was a great day to be a Sijeh. My seven-year-old social butterfly, who’d rather chat with me about friends and fashion, gave her most focused effort yet. I had to have her practice alone for a bit as I worked with the five year old who missed class last week, and I was stunned by what I saw out of the corner of my eye.
She did one repetition after another without prompting and even self-corrected after watching me with her classmate. I didn’t know she had it in her – the inclination to keep her mind and body on kung fu for more than three minutes at a time. I was so proud of her (and the classmate who finally earned his white sash) that I felt high for hours afterward. A second grader’s concentration made my favorite day of the week even better than it normally is. It’s still the little things, always and forever, that make the biggest difference.
It’s baseball fever in Baltimore, but for me, it’s bakery fever. And as the temperature rises , so does the level of craziness in my days. The last forty-eight hours have looked something like this:
-Emails with publicists, authors, journalists and politicos (the day job) interspersed with emails and calls with the staff of the property manager who hasn’t spoken to me directly since calling to tell me the lease is mine; requesting and receiving an emailed confirmation of being approved for the lease.
-Learning from the city’s chief health inspector the brands of ovens that eliminate the need to change the ventilation system in the building; learning more about plumbing building codes than I ever wanted to know; finding out that even my frequently generous plumber has limits to his generosity when tearing out a floor is likely (the three compartment sink might cost more than the specialized oven).
-Sending out the promotional announcements for the next live show, sorting by copyright my guest author’s books and cracking the cover on the first.
-Searching for a place to get passport photos taken for my food manager’s license and having it take much too long, when I needed to keep my lunch hour to 30 minutes. Having a little birdie whisper in my ear “don’t mail that” right before I walked into a training session for the company’s new edit software and later being glad that it did; calling during training break to find out that the new procedure, just days old, is to deliver the application in person and have the pictures taken onsite.
-After two hours of software training, making a mad dash to the train to get picked up by my family for kung fu class.
-Two hours of sparring and long staff work later, taking the whole family with me on a brief, unimpressive tour of a commercial kitchen I can rent, if sink issues delay opening the store.
-After shower and food, shopping online for the best equipment prices and comparison shopping on business insurance policies; being forced by my better half to shut it down and grab some sleep as the clock sped past 1:30.
-Waking 20 minutes later than normal, needing more sleep and anxious to get into the future store again. Meeting up with property manager’s assistant to get measurements in the shop and make notes; taking my food manager’s application downtown on the way to the morning train, only to be told it needed to be accompanied by another larger application – and a larger check.
Another dash to another train. Another day of emails and calls on the current life and the future one. Another afternoon of training on software I won’t be using for long. Another day of acting like it was just another day… and loving that it wasn’t.
Starting a business, while slowly extricating myself from a full-time job that requires a three-hour round-trip commute and continuing to train in and teach a discipline that requires abundant energy, may prove to be the unreasonable endeavor of my middle age. It certainly leaves me with a fraction of my former blogging time. In short, I have to keep this short; so I’ll get straight to the point.
Just when I thought that the highlight of Sunday was teaching my most reluctant student to do a pretty decent long arm swing, I got the call…
The store is mine!!
May the battle of licensing bureaucracy begin…. Stay tuned. 🙂
I’ve gotten a total of nine hours sleep over the last two days – not counting the snippets of time spent inadvertently snoring or drooling on the commuter train. Surprisingly, I awoke the last two mornings feeling more refreshed than I have on the rare occasions that my nightly sleep reaches or exceeds seven hours. Anticipation is the reason. I think it may be life’s cosmic caffeine boost. There’s been no difference in my training regimen, eating habits, nightly routine. Hope is the only reason I’m rested without rest.
This storefront – five blocks down the street from my house, a block up the street from one of the city’s high foot traffic restaurant areas – may soon be mine. They’ve had my financials for more than twenty-four hours; they told me it would take no more than forty-eight to know whether my person and my vision are things they want to gamble on by granting a commercial lease.
I’m one giant step closer to adding baker-by-day to my life of Sijeh-by-night! It’s going to be a long weekend if I don’t hear anything today. But I suspect it’ll be the most exciting sleepless weekend of my life… however the crumbs may fall.
It’s after 1 a.m. on the East coast, and I’ve just watched the Royals battle back to win the wild card game. It’s hard not to be inspired.
In the wee hours of this first day of October, however, I realize, as I tend to my throbbing right shoulder, that I’ve now been working on this form for the same amount of time as a full-term pregnancy – and I still haven’t been taught the final moves. I’m ready to have this baby already!